How to make gay friends in a new city
Updated · 4 min read · Zynger team
Moving to a new city is exciting and can be lonely at first. Dating apps aren’t only for dates: many men use them to find friends, a gym buddy or someone to explore the city with.
Say you’re looking for friends
On Zynger, set what you’re open to (for example Friends and Networking) so men who want the same thing can find you. Mention you’re new in town in your About line: it’s an easy conversation starter.
Explore before you arrive
Use Anywhere to look at your new city before you move, and start a few conversations so you have people to meet in your first week.
Go where the community is
Pride marches, queer book clubs, sports groups and community organisations are great for meeting people offline. Many Indian cities have regular Pride events; our city pages list some with sources.
- Mumbai: Queer Azaadi Mumbai
- Delhi: Delhi Queer Pride Parade
- Bengaluru: Namma Pride
- Gujarat: Pride marches in Ahmedabad, Surat and Vadodara
Make plans, not just chats
Friendships grow from doing things together. Suggest a coffee, a walk or an event, keep it public at first, and follow up if you enjoyed it.